Felicitation is eternal part of the life, you do something good out of the odds, you gets felicitations and compliments for that. One thing common in people is the urge for adulation and compliments, because this will make them do more and more exceptional work in a much improved and efficient way.
To build some one’s morale, praise and compliment are the only catalysts that will make their determination firm.
Compliments are something that gives a tempting effect on those whom you want to lure. But a majority of people does not know how to say ‘Thank You’ in return of compliment, and those who know are doing in a wrong way.
Most common responsive words include ‘Thank You’, ‘Thank You. I appreciate…’, ‘Thank you, it’s very kind of you’ etc.
But do you really think that these plain words will do the job of ‘Thanking’ someone to maintain the equipoise.
Certainly not, maybe that person will not felicitate you again considering your cold behaviour. So how to say Thank You to someone for a compliment in a much salivating way?
Well, your expressions speaks more than your words. As of a primary step, try to include your expressions while you are thanking someone. You could also show your surprise feature and could make your sign of respect by saying that you did not expect such a compliment from them.
You could also break the credit for your fellow team person with whom you have accomplished that task and introduce your team person with compliment giver and could explain him the sub – sets of work done by you and your fellow.
This practice will make the giver more indulging and he/she would feel more comfortable in that conversation.
Generally people says those things which they want to hear for the same thing if they would have done. So if they are complimenting you then you could also do the favour of complimenting them in return, it could be about anything, their wardrobe, their shoes and so on.
There are slew of folks who put down their feature by returning farcical comments to the compliments received for their feature, chiefly for which they are being admired. For instance, someone praises your shoes and suddenly you backfire, revealing how hoary they are, showing that you couldn’t perhaps keep yourself up-to-date.
There are many more examples like these which occurs in our day-to-day lives. So, for having a better attitude, it becomes slightly important to offer the complimenter about a little instinct of facts about it.
Like, for shoes, you can say, yes, this old pair gifted by my friend or something like that. In this way you will retrograde the previous situation and could handle this one with better outcome.
A better practice is to avoid excessive adulation for the work you have done, that will led to downgrade of the quality of work in future, so better is to ask for the things where there is still more place for improvement.
Simply say like this, ‘I appreciate your response, but I would like to know from you the place for improvement’, and you will see that in no time the complimenter would start telling you about major loop holes in your work.
This would lead you to a better result in future. You can also ask for the things that seems peculiar for complimenter and you could try to include that thing in your future projects. In this way you make complimenter more involved in the project and the conversation.
Certainly, you reply by saying Thank You for receiving compliments and it is generous way too, but it is really considerate to give Thank You tailed by few satisfactory words.
It is not downgrading your accomplishment, but benefits in making out a decent discussion with each other which is highly plausible. For instance, you can simply admire his/her clothing or could say thanks for being such an inordinate auditor.
If you want the compliments to keep showering on you, they you must absorb them effusively. While thanking someone for the commendation you acknowledged, you must also make them feel that you really mean it.
Don’t ever flash your plain voice that you didn’t earn it or you really not mean it. Show your decorum by saying Thank You, which chiefly shows your existence at the work.
While repaying the commendations, you should try to keep it brief, otherwise it might lead to an uncomfortable situation amid the two.
The flow must not be resistive, as it could become uninteresting.
There comes times when we finds ourselves in a flummoxed situation of not being able to say ‘Thank You’ for a compliment so, It is significant to reminisce that your reply must not be ranting or boastful.